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Mental Health

Finding Calm in the Chaos: A Simple Breathing Exercise to Ground Yourself

August 22, 2025, 12:00 AM
Introduction: The Mind-Body Connection

As a recent graduate licensed as an associate counselor and registered dance movement therapist, I’ve learned firsthand how deeply our minds and bodies are connected. Every experience we live through—whether joyful, stressful, or somewhere in between—leaves an imprint not just in our thoughts, but in the way we hold ourselves, move, and breathe.


Why Breath Alone Isn’t Always Enough

I’ve worked with many individuals navigating anxiety and trauma, and one thing I know for sure is this: the body is a powerful tool for healing. While focusing on your breathing can help, our bodies often hold on to tension that needs to be released, too.


The Tension and Release Breathing Exercise

Find something to hold onto—a pillow, a stress ball, or a rolled-up blanket.
Breathe in for three seconds, tensing your body as you do—raise your shoulders, squeeze your legs together, and press your feet firmly into the ground.
Squeeze your prop horizontally as you inhale, mimicking the side-to-side expansion of your lungs.
Hold for three seconds, keeping both the tension and the breath.
Exhale slowly, letting go of every bit of tension in your muscles as you release your breath.


Why This Works

This practice is quick, discreet, and can be done almost anywhere. When I guide clients through it in session, I join in with them—mirroring their breath and movements—to create a sense of safety, connection, and “we’re in this together.”


A Gentle Reminder

You don’t have to face racing thoughts or tense muscles alone. A few intentional breaths, paired with the wisdom of your body, can help you create a moment of stillness in the middle of life’s noise.
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